how to make your girlfriend love you more
Lighten Her Load
Modern women carry big loads between working full-time, cooking, and caring for the home and family members. Finding ways to lighten her load on a regular basis without any prompting from her or any expectation of reward can show her that you want to take care of her too. While women are traditionally the caretakers, they love being cared for.
Show You’re Reliable and Dependable
Women forge love relationships partly to have a dependable partner in life to help carry them through difficult times. If she knows that you’ll be there to pick her up when she falls or work in tandem to dig out of a deep whole, she’ll definitely feel love for you. Be there with a positive attitude and willing spirit when she asks for help and follow through to show you’re reliable and dependable. This also creates a sense of security in the relationship and in life.
Create Intimate Moments Frequently
Intimate moments are not equal to sexual relations, but are instances where you are really focused on each other in a private way. Studies have shown by staring into each other’s eyes then answering deeply personal questions, you can make someone fall in love with you. Look for times that make sense where you can stare into each other’s eyes for a few seconds or minutes to create intimacy. Use intimate conversation starters while you’re eating dinner or hanging on the couch.
Show Your Generous and Caring Side
Above all else, the trait women are most turned-on by is kindness. Whether you’re being nice to her, her family, strangers, or even animals, look for ways to show that you are naturally thoughtful. Your investment in kindness on a daily basis shows her that life with you will be positive and nurturing.
If you want a woman to fall in love with you, being faithful to her is a must. Have a conversation about the stage your relationship is in and the expectations in terms of being exclusive. If her expectation is that you’re not flirting or dating other women, then don’t do those things. Your ability to stay focused on her despite distractions shows you’re worth her love.
Surprise Her Once in A While
Adventure and excitement in a relationship are important to women, this keeps the relationship dynamic. When you create memorable dates or bring her fun surprises, make sure they are safe surprises that won’t push her too far outside her comfort zone or you too far outside yours. Blindfolding her to drive to a romantic picnic is an example of a good, easy surprise whereas springing another woman on her in the bedroom might be an unsafe surprise.
Be a Good Listener
Be an active listener. She will not fall in love with someone who can’t remember what she said. If it helps, write a note to yourself after important conversations. This will help you remember what you talked about. Be interested in the outcome or resolution of any problem she has.
Offer Sincere Compliments
Give the object of your affection sincere compliments designed to help her feel special. Recognize a new outfit or a flattering new hair cut. Compliment her work, her attempts at something new and the things you genuinely like about her. Don’t be overly dramatic. Keep the compliments short but genuine.
Earn and Expect Trust
For many women, trust is the most important factor in falling in love. Some women give their trust up front, but you should still show her that you’re working to earn it. Earning trust is a long process where you need to be honest, follow through, and keep information private when requested. If you lie or cheat, you’ll lose trust and may never get it back. Trust her and expect trust in return.
Dress to Impress
Kick your wardrobe into “hot” mode. Remember the ZZ Top song, “Every Girl’s Crazy About a Sharp Dressed Man?” These words hold true today. Women want to be seen with a man who takes pride in his appearance, so get your men’s wardrobe essentials in order. There’s no one style that makes all women fall in love, so shoot for the best version of your style.
Chivalry is not and will never be dead for many women. Open doors for her. Offer a hand up or hand down when it is needed. Be polite. Don’t use poor grammar or offensive language in front of her. These simple acts show her that she’s special and you want her to be happy and cared for.
Respect Her As an Equal
In today’s world, men and women are more equal than ever in terms of responsibilities. No matter who makes more money in the relationship or who works longer hours, give her the respect she deserves and she’ll be in love with you. You can honor her role in your relationship, her role at work, or anything else she’s involved in as a sign of respect by acknowledging its importance.
Send Sweet Correspondence
The things you say in person or even via text can help make a girl fall in love with you. Share your thoughts and say sweet things to her from time to time so it feels genuine and not